Swap “Stop yelling!” for “Use your quiet voice, I’m listening.”
A child’s brain responds better to positive instructions.
Negative commands create resistance. Positive guidance, on the other hand, encourages action.
By saying “Use your quiet voice, I’m listening,” you’re directing their behavior toward what you want—without triggering defiance.
Your child feels heard and respected, making them more likely to calm down and cooperate.
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